Is a decreased sex drive normal for a man in a long term relationship?

Super personal!!! But I’ve gone from one extreme to the other with my sex life and I’m just trying to understand if there’s a “normal” sex life and a “doomed” sex life. My boyfriend used to be all about sex (once or twice when we’d see each other on weekends) and after the first 6 months together it dropped to 2x a month. We haven’t slept together this entire last year and a half. He thinks it’s normal but I’m having a hard time with it.

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