I'm in the 3rd trimester and starting to get concerned about where my seatbelt lands. I've read it's best for the lap belt to be flat across your thighs and the shoulder strap to not cross the stomach at all. But I'm short and if I sit close enough to reach the pedals, the lap belt won't lay flat over my thighs and to avoid getting the shoulder strap across my belly, I have to move it up so that it ends up going across my neck.... This may be safer for baby but I worry about my own safety should we be in a wreck.... Does anyone have advice for me?? I want baby to be safe but I also don't want to compromise my own safety.