Have we lost our feeling?

Question

Does anyone not enjoy having sex with your SO? We have been together for 5 years and we used to enjoy it all of the time and now I never initiate it. If he does and I go with it I eventually get into it, but when he brings it up I really don't want to. He doesn't force me into it ever though! 
​I'm worried I'm not attracted to him anymore. Or if our love has fizzled. I love him with all of my  heart and never want to be with anyone else, he is definitely the one for me. 
​Note: we have lived together for one year and are 20 years old. 
​Help!!!

Answer

It could be a lull or it could be depression. I got really depressed and the only thing that showed was irritation, lack of emotional investment in my DH and sex, I was cranky and felt crappy all the time. I knew from past experience that soon I was going to plummet hard and needed to take control, I went to my dr and went back on my medication and got better. Have you thought about talking to your dr to see if it could be a different issue going on? Maybe stress?

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I am the same way. We have lived together for 4 years and have also "lost interest". We are 20 years old and have busy lives. I don't have any interest in having sex. It doesn't feel good to me. He will ask and I either push away or eventuall give in.

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We are the same. I am 25 DH is 27. We celebrated our 6th Ann on the First. Sex is good when we do have it and that is only a few times a month.

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I think when you've been with someone for a long time you can experience lulls. try doing something romantic together like dinner or a movie to being back this intimate feelings again! sometimes life just gets in the way of these feelings and you need to shake it up again!

Have we lost our feeling?

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