My husband has decided that he will be picking up divorce papers in the morning. We've been together 5 years and married for 1. He say's he can't stand my anger issues anymore (they are kind of a newer issue) yet, he hasn't really lifted a finger or anything to try and help me with them or get through/deal with them. I've been doing my best to deal with them, but tacked with my depression, some times I can't help it. I normally just yell and stuff, but I guess he's done with it and me. Not that I blame him, but I'm upset that I've ruined this. Yay me.

* Why is it that you guy's automatically think I am not seeking help? I am in counseling, I would appreciate you guy's stop trying to put all the blame on me. He hasn't gone with me to counseling when I've asked, he doesn't engage in my coping methods, he hasn't made changes with me in order to help. Marriage is a 2 way street and right now I'm on a one way.