I’m I being inconsiderate??

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I’m almost 30 weeks pregnant and have been really uncomfortable because my baby is seating so low. I try not to complain but all I keep hearing from my husband is why I keep doing this or that or why I’m not doing anything... but I literally clean the house all the time I work at a head start center and in my class I have 7 kids 18 months -2 .today he kept saying it’s cold in the house which the heater is on 66 and I was hot at 68. He said well you can be uncomfortable... my response was I have been for 5 months can’t you be for the next 70 something days ?? He mouthed something and walked off and then said I guess I’ll just be the uncomfortable person.?? Like ok I’m caring our child and do my best with my almost 5 year old like I’m I wrong to want one thing???                
Kind of update- I woke up in at 2am this morning because I was hot I had asked him before I went to lay down please don’t change the temperature. Well when I got up I figured I just needed a cold drink of water and I checked the temperature and he has it at 70!! Y’all I love my husband but I so badly just want to go wake him up since I can’t sleep cause of being hot because he messed with the temp

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nope. he can put on a damn sweater.

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He’s being a douche. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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I’m really trying to think of some really great and wise advice here so you can solve you issues calmly. But honestly I would lose my shit 100%. Let the crazy out! Just lose it and when you’re feeling guilty later blame it on the pregnancy hormones.

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It’s much easier to warm yourself up than it is to cool yourself off! Tell him to try cleaning up around the house like you do. I guarantee after a little house work he will be sweating... Sorry you win on this one!

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I’d loose my shit. Let him see what it’s like having to carry a child and do everything else on top of that. You are damn Super Woman

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you need to regulate on that man. nobody in my house complains to me.  I get hot and cold like crazy so sometimes it's cold in the house. sometimes its hot. not my sister in law or her dude or my mother in law or her husband complain. my poor love just cracks the window if hes hot or covers up if I'm too cool for him lol the nerve of some people.

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my poor fiance has been freezing at night because I am sooo hot, I'm 37 weeks...he knows I have to endure this and push a fuggin watermelon out of my vag, he can deal for a bit

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Ooookay, I’m not one of those thatsgoing to bash your husband bc of a disagreement. Just try and compromise. Ask him to put on a blanket or something warm and y’all need to sit down and have a talk about expectations from each other. It’s never a good feeling when you think your SO doesn’t appreciate you or the things you do. Good luck girl!!

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They will never understand what we go through... if he is cold he can throw on layers you can't rip off your skin. it what I told my boyfriend the last 10 weeks of my pregnancy. I couldn't stand being hot... alot of the time my heat in the living room where I slept was kept either at 40 or off and I ran my fan all winter.  if not I woke up sweaty and gross and hated it... tell him if somethings not done he can do it himself. like pregnancy is tiring and sore... And some get those worse than others... by the time I got home from work at 6 i wanted to do nothing but sleep. I hope he smartens  up and helps out more instead of complaining. because once baby comes it might not change. (I'm stuck feeding and caring for baby 24-7, and trying keep the place clean with him saying I don't work (maternity leave) there for i can do everything, and not expect help. I'm lucky to sleep 2 hours straight  a few times a day)  good luck girlly!

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