I'm actually not even engaged yet but my boyfriend and I enjoy talking about our future and today (after seeing how huge one side of his family is) I made a comment about being screwed on the idea of a small wedding. Then I told him I'd like to have a kid free wedding (no one under the age of 16) and he seemed to think it was a crazy idea even though I think it would help save my parents money and allow the parents to have a good time without worrying about controlling their kids. Feel free to comment your opinion and why as well.