Oral or no oral??

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my boyfriend gave me oral for the first time on Christmas lol. and I love it..then he did it again on New year's 😍. I asked him about it and he said he enjoys it. I can't bring myself to do the same to him. I'm afraid but I want to please him. I'm 20 and he's 21 😗😐he understands my feelings but I kinda feel bad. what should I do?

Accepted Answer

You should just suck his dick.. it's not scary lol

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Girl I felt like this for the longest time! I can’t tell you how long I searched up tips on how to do it on the internet! Probably like 2/3 years ! And I still get self conscious about it! My boyfriend tells me I’m good, and once in awhile he’ll get off from it or moan. I have a really sensitive gag reflex. I was soooo beyond nervous about it, I was literally shaking the first time before I even 100% decided ‘okay I’m going to do this!’ But it turned out fine. And tbh since I started to do it I’m learning more then I ever did from the internet ! Lol. I talked to my boyfriend about how I felt about it and how nervous I was and told him straight up I don’t know what I’m doing so yu have to teach me.. at first he didn’t tell me anything, after the second or third time he started to lead my head a bit and tell me to ease up or go harder or when to stop take a breathe and lick his shaft then continue etc... it can be very scary and nerve racking, especially if yu have anxiety towards it ! I still have my moment about it but I’m getting much more comfortable now and he’s helped me through a lot (: be opened with yur boyfriend. If you wanna try, try! If not, than that’s okay too! He’s going to love yu for yu, not for oral! Hope this helps ! Not many females have it as nerve racking as I did! But it gets better, I can promise that !☺️

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Try it out if you want. I promise it’s not scary lol. Just ease into it. Don’t try deep throating ten seconds in, ya know.

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just try it. You dont have to deep throat it

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Get on it!

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do what your comfortable with. if he forces you then he is NOT FOR YOU.

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You may actually like the way it feels, just try it and don't rush or make it awkward. Easier said than done but if you look nervous he may lose his erection
. Just relax and let the mood and feelings work their magic. Good luck 😀

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Ok I feel the same way. I was super nervous and scared the first time I did it. But you really just can't think about it. He'll understand.

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I know how you feel, once you get started though it’s fine. :)

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It’s very common to be nervous about this kind of thing! The only way to find out if you really don’t like it is to try it but that doesn’t mean you have to dive right in. Just wait until you feel ready, you shouldn’t feel pressure from anyone about it. You can start out with little stuff and work your way down. Hopefully your partner understands your feelings and is supportive throughout this journey! Good luck!

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