Why do guys feel like they have to make you orgasm?

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So this guy Ive been seeing we get alone great and in the bedroom it's awesome,  but I might not orgasm everytime which is normal for me and ok because I still greatly enjoy it. But it's annoying bc he will ask after each time what he did wrong,  I try to explan that it's me and not him,  and suggestion?

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It's not an ego thing. It's an age thing. I would bet you guys are in the younger side. Educate him that some women don't climax every time and that's normal. Let him know it's nothing about him doing something wrong. But do coach him on what you do like and don't like.

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It's an ego thing.

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He said "because we orgasm so I feel like you should too. I get pissed if I don't get off, so don't you if you don't orgasm?"

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I told him that just bc I didn't orgasm doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it. It's not like porn it aint gonna happen everytime.  That ain't even real.

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Maybe just explain the likelihood of vaginal penetration climaxes? Not everyone can at all, so it's a bonus that you can sometimes. Also, if he's really concerned then maybe he can work to get you off first?

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My partner enjoys seeing me happy and wants to ensure that I'm enjoying the sex as much as possible. However, every time can't be awesome. How I'm feeling, the weather, and where I am in my cycle all affect things. Just continue to reassure him that it isn't him and give advice when you can.

Why do guys feel like they have to make you orgasm?

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