Penis irritation?

Hannah • Married to a wonderful, hard-working man, with a rainbow “ours” baby boy 07/11/19 🥰 and two beautiful step daughters. 💜

So, I don't like to shave my vagina. I keep it trimmed. But when my SO and I have sex with my bush even with enough lube, it rubs him raw. But when I shave, it doesn't. Anyone else have this problem? (No he doesn't have an STD, we've tested)