Rant!!

Tayaisha • Unsure about ttc or not lol
Some of you are going to call me chikdish and whatever. 
My husband had a friend named john. Young in his 20s my husbands 31. 
John liked girls and partying and drinking like most 20 year olds 
This didn't bother me 
John never said hello or bye to me
This somewhat bothered me but not really.
Then I found a msg convo in my husband phone with John 
Along the lines of this 
John: did you go to rainers house for dinner? 
Husband: yeah I had his mum jumping on my cock while she cooked me dinner
John: haha you funny fuck blah blah messages go on.......
I confronted my husband about this and lost my shit how disrespectful. How embarrassed I was ! I told him I don't want to see that guys face and your not to talk with him.
 My husband said oh it's just a joke.
I don't care! This is my dignity as a wife that was humiliated. 
My husband still speaks to him after me telling him not to only now he deleted his messages. It's frustrating!!!!!