Sex life.

How does stress affect your desires for your SO? My boyfriend is pretty internal about his urges (it wasn't like so when we first started dating), and I'm pretty open. I just seem to want more then he does and he goes to the excuse job and finances are stressing him to a point of not even considering it.

I though sex and releasing urges were supposed to help with stress. Im not sure, I just feel like I'm not wanted in that regard, or attractive. I know I am (not in a cocky manner), he says I am. It comes to a point that I just get depressed about the issue.

I've tried waiting for him to come to me, and I'm more passionate then that. He used to be as well. It's alarming because we've only been together a year.

I really don't know what else I can do to get him to show it.