Announcing pregnancy after 12 week scan

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I have a bit of a dilema, me and my ex are not together and to be honest he hasnt taken much interest, made alot of contact to me in the pregnancy or shown up to scans as he saids he is far too busy. He told me he isnt coming to the 12 week scan as again he is so busy but his family and friends are aware of the baby and he is keeping it low key and off social media. Since ive been the one who has taken full responsibility i was looking forward to finally sharing my news via social media as i have family/friends on there but now i feel conflicted am i disrespecting him if i choose to share my happy news even if he has little involvement 🙁 it makes me sad that i cant just be happy and tell peope