Upvote: how to deal with excessive amounts of discharge

i know it’s a normal thing but when i mean excessive i mean sometimes i’ll feel like i’m peeing my pants but really it’s like a big gush of discharge, i change my underwear often/wear liners and wash often so it’s not a hygiene problem but it’s embarrassing if i was to have sex one day and take down my panties and there will just be a gush because it happens when i stand up/take off my underwear, it’s DEFINITELY NOT PEE

just clearing that up and one of my biggest worries is that i’m going to get a brazilian wax soon and i know it’s ‘normal’ but i don’t want her to be waxing me and then a big gush comes out, it’s not her job to clean up my discharge, i can’t control it

i’m a virgin btw it’s always been like this since i started puberty, i’m 16 now

please upvote