Okay so my son’s father is expecting me to give him money back from my taxes since “I’m getting more money back bc of our son so he should get some back too”. Last year i ended up giving him money so of course he’s expecting it this year too. It’s not that I’m being greedy, but he has done NOTHING for our son. Our son will be 2 in May and the amount of things he’s ever gotten him might’ve lasted a month but that might be even stretching it. He went to jail right before our son’s birthday so he didn’t get him any birthday gifts, around Christmas lost his job and we moved to another state so didn’t get him any Christmas gifts, and hasn’t gotten him anything but a pack of wipes since hes gotten out of jail which was in August. We got back together in September and broke up in December and i did everything myself. Always have. We’re on good terms and he’s trying to work things out but i know if i say I’m not giving him money he’s going to flip out and threaten to expose me online by posting videos he has of us. He’s threatened me with that a few weeks ago when we got into an argument and i said don’t expect anything from my income tax. I don’t think I’m wrong at all for not wanting to give him any, he hasn’t spent more then $5 on our son all year. I literally do everything. I just don’t know what to do bc I’m not sure what he’ll actually do if i don’t give him any and i know he’s not going to want anything to do with me, at least for a while. I love him a lot but i guess it’s not worth it if hes going to act that way over money he doesn’t deserve in the first place.

Do you think it’s wrong of me not to give him any?? He doesn’t pay child support for our son either btw.