My huband and I are talking about TTC. We've been together for 5 years, married for 2 of them. He's wanted kids since our first date. I told him I wanted to wait till we were married, I graduated college, and became established in my career. I've done all those while he's patiently waited. Now the baby topic is coming around. I still don't feel ready but I know he is.. Friends and family keep scaring me saying wait because your life ends... or kids will change you... you'll never been alone again...and the list goes on. Half of me is ready, half of me is not... What do I do?? 😕