Ectopic pregnancy 😳😳😳

I was discovered to have an ectopic pregnancy. .it was so devastating ...and it caused so much discomfort and stress. .it was a major blow for my fiancée we were looking forward but we had to terminate it... so after this am really scared TTC..I'm still recovering and i dont really want to have another pregnancy gone wrong just yet.. my hubby wants us to start this month end but I'm too scared to go through this again ...it's just been one week and some days and he's already thinking by the end of this month we can start having sex? When is the best time? The doc said when you're ready but thing is I don't know when I will be ready and i dont knwo when it's safe to have sex or even just try for another one