herpes

So a girl snapchats me out of the blue and says i need to get checked because my partner gave her herpes a few months ago. All this time i havent had any symptoms at all, but im kind of working myself up really bad i've barely been sleeping and wake up thinking about it all over again. BUT she used to talk to this guy i'm in school with & he said she called him months ago saying she had herpes. but im going get checked thursday & i really need kind words or something because im really psyching myself up about this. I mean i dont have sympathy but i can still have it.