but I live 45 minutes away from my parents and family, and I didn't want them coming down unless I was admitted and the baby was actully on her way, but of course my parents end up driving down and even messaged the whole family telling them "Oh My God Cora is coming!" Even started a Facebook chat getting everyone exsited that she was coming. So I end up getting a million messages asking how I'm doing and a bunch of other stuff and while I just wanted this to be between me and my hubby I was then in the assessing room with both my parents who wouldn't leave and who was driving me crazy and stressing me out while I'm trying to deal through contraction! 

I understand this is their first grandchild but it's also my first child as well... do I have a right to be upset? I ended up kicking them out of the house due to lack of sleep and told them to only come if I get admitted and my dad says "no, you can't tell us when to come, we will come when we want to" I just wanted this to be between me and Scott.... And now I don't even want to tell anyone when I'm in active labor...