My 6 year old is driving me crazy and stressing me out, she is SO defiant. I've grounded her, put her in time out & even spanked her. every time she gets in trouble she says she's tired of her life and she does everything and that she's like Cinderella. Which is completely not true. I have no patience with her anymore and i don't know what to do. she listens to everyone but me. I just feel like I am the worst mom ever who can't get her own child to listen. She embarrasses me at the store and in front of family members on my side and my husbands side.