Venting about the hub

Ok so... when I first started dating my hubby I was 3 mo preg we had been friends for many years and we finally decided to make a go at something more than friendship. It has been awesome... till we got married. He used to cuddle just to cuddle and help me out around the house and not complain when I asked him to help take care of my son. Now its the opposite a lot of the time. The only time he touches me is for sex (that's what it feels like) he refuses to get a decent job and it has only been this week that he has started to help me again around the house (after I had a major meltdown) the worst is that he complains about helping with my son now. Before we got married it was all sunshine and butterflies and now it sucks. I've tried talking to him and he will appologize but nothing changes. Its making the bedroom life dwindle to nothing... or is it my attitude that's making the problem???