I don't want to share my baby... am I the only one???

I am due in 5 weeks and I really don't look forward to people asking me to hold my baby. I know there are alot of people who are really looking forward to meeting him but I just want to take the first few weeks to bond with him and get to know him myself! My husband doesn't understand how it feels as a mother to feel like you have to protect your baby. He says things like, "I don't want him to be sheltered and kept from the rest of his family." and I would never do that. its just I don't want to share him with everyone as soon as he gets here. But I know my husband will support any decision I choose to mak regarding our baby. I just don't want anyone holding or especially kissing him Thats an absolute NO! And some of my husbands family memebers are already talking about coming to my home after I leave the hospital to see the baby and its giving me anxiety thinking of people in his face so early..... is this normal??? I know I probably sound dramatic to someone who's never experienced these feelings because I'm sure I'd look at this post and think I was a lunatic if I was on the outside looking in lol.