My bf doesn’t flirt anymore.

So I sent my boyfriend a naughty picture when he went outside for a smoke, I was just laying in bed.

When I confront him about the message or the picture he says of course I like it, but he doesn’t text flirt like we used to! In saying that, we weren’t living together at the time so we had the chance to miss each other etc.

He says that he has always been bad at flirting but we used to sext and it was great. He’s a shy guy but I don’t feel like that’s an excuse with me that’s valid.

I’m starting to feel down about our relationship because we have had ups and downs which have caused him to not initiate sex anymore. I had a pregnancy scare or so we thought and since then we just haven’t had sex. It’s been just after New Years since we were last intimate.

How do you reignite the fire in a relationship? We’ve been together coming up to 3 years and living together for around 1.5 years.

I don’t feel sexy anymore and it almost feels like we are just really good friends.

Help a girl out!