Sex toys? i need help!

can someone recommend what to buy? theres way too many options. i think i want some sort of vibrating cock ring, because i basically need clit stimulation during sex. i cant get it from just grinding because i think theres too much distance between my V opening and my clit (my clits further up so wont rub on him). im also curious about getting a vibrator. im 27 and have never had one, but my husbands deploying soon and i think id like to try it out. if i can buy it on amazon thats the most convenient but ill take any suggestions. PLEASE comment with pictures! thanks glowers!πŸ˜™πŸ˜»