Ok so I’m new to this whole thing of asking women (or others in general) for advice... idk where to start so I’ll just jump in.

My husband and I had sex tonight before he went to bed. I finished and so did he. Just out of the blue I get this urge of hornyness! I try to find a quiet place to pleasure myself so I don’t wake him or our 3 year old son. I start and realize I don’t know how ... it doesn’t feel good. People say “you just have to experiment” I tried 1 finger and multiple fingers ... but it’s not “hitting the spot”. I don’t use toys as I think they’re scary honestly, and they don’t look fun. I’ve never tried one and never owned one.

I guess what I’m trying to say is ... what do you women do or how???

I’m 25 and have been with my husband since I was 18, so I don’t have much experience with other men.

I feel COMPLETELY out of place on here and like I’m asking stupid questions, but I need some advice!