Hormones ...

Ok so I’m new to this whole thing of asking women (or others in general) for advice... idk where to start so I’ll just jump in.

My husband and I had sex tonight before he went to bed. I finished and so did he. Just out of the blue I get this urge of hornyness! I try to find a quiet place to pleasure myself so I don’t wake him or our 3 year old son. I start and realize I don’t know how ... it doesn’t feel good. People say “you just have to experiment” I tried 1 finger and multiple fingers ... but it’s not “hitting the spot”. I don’t use toys as I think they’re scary honestly, and they don’t look fun. I’ve never tried one and never owned one.

I guess what I’m trying to say is ... what do you women do or how???

I’m 25 and have been with my husband since I was 18, so I don’t have much experience with other men.

I feel COMPLETELY out of place on here and like I’m asking stupid questions, but I need some advice!