So, I'm a first time mom to be and I feel like my son is coming in last place to my boyfriends 2 kids. He has one son, and is basically trying to push all his old clothes on me for my son to wear and it's starting to eat at me.. He got mas because I didn't want to use his 7 yo worn out crib or other hand me dowms such as swomgs or bouncer, I wanted it new, so I used my money to buy everything I needed, so far the only thing he has bought, is a travel system and carseat, everything else from the crib to clothes and even bottles, have come from me. And I really don't want his first two kids around my son, because they don't listen at all, and plus their mom has told them to hurt my baby and be mean to him and I don't trust the kids around him, nor do I trust the bf to discipline the kids if that should arise because he just wants it happy go lucky fun times when they're with us. Oh he has also told me countless times to get over the fact that I don't want any one kissing my son on his face or hands at first, or that if they have a cough or sniffles I don't want then around him. idk if it's because this is his third kid, or if he just doesn't care, but he's really pissing me off. Idk I guess I just wanted to vent plus,some advise as well if you have any