Sooo, I came out as bisexual when I was 16, but then started dating only women when I turned 19. I’ve had this friend since freshman year of high school who’s had a crush on me since then. Let’s just say that was MANY MANY moons ago.

Well, him and I have always had a connection but never took it to the physical level. He was married and just got a divorce in September. I never saw him the entire time they were together.

Well, we’ve been spending every weekend together and we totally have been hooking up. I love him to death, but it’s messing with my head for how I’ve identified sexually for 11 years. I’m still seeing one of the girls I have been as well as him. Which he knows about an advocates since he wants me to be happy and get what he can’t offer me. We are trying to take it slow. But our connection is CRAZY. Like long haul type of connection. Should I not over think it and just see where it goes? Ladies... I’m confused! 🤦🏼‍♀️