Just friends?

Question

My fiancé has been friends with a girl since third grade but she lives in another state now and they don't talk as much but still keep in touch. In fact, with any girl he talks to/about I get worried. Does he think about them in a sexually way? Can a guy and a girl be just friends?

Answer

Yes a guy can have a female friend. Do you have guy friends? (Don't want to be hypocritical!) is he open as honest about what they talk about? If you asked him "hey did you talk to so-n-so today?" And he says "yeah she's got a new job and apartment! Things are looking up!" Then yeah they are friends and you have nothing to be worried about. If he lies about talking to her, or if you are feeling insecure about your relationship with him, perhaps a talk is due between the two of you about having friends of the opposite sex.

Answer

I would most defiantly tell him your uncomfortable with it but since she's in another state It's probably nothing. Me and this boy names jesse have known eachother since 7th grade were juniors now lol but he now lives in Florida and we talk from time to time we call eachother brother and sister mainly because we kinda look alike but we just have casual/funny convos he tells me secrets I tell him some. BUT. My boyfriend is free to read all the messages he wants and to ask me what we talked about. I've told my bf that he's basicly a brother to me and we don't think of eachother like that and my bf understands that. He doesn't really like the face that we talk but I allow him to talk to females so im alloys to talk to Jesse as well. Just make sure he's not being sketchy about the situation and if you ask to read the messages and he gets defensive then there might be a problem this is Jesse​this is me & my boyfriend lol with my new hair color we don't look that much alike​

Answer

I agree with Tonnina.

Just friends?

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