So I'm 21 years old I just got out of a toxic relationships of 2 years in November I've been dating a new guy for 2 months now and we have plans to spend Valentine's Day together tomorrow. He treats me so much better and everything has been going great but my mom is made at me that I'm not spending Valentine's Day with her. She is very needy and because of it I don't have a life for myself ever. She's single depressed and thinks I'm selfish if I go on this date. It's literally only going to be a few hours but she's been throwing a temper tantrum. She says Valentine's is for someone who loves you and I should be spending it with her. She also says since my relationship is new he doesn't love me. She's trying to portray negativity onto my new relationship when it hasn't even been negative my mother should be happy for me knowing all I've been through. Am I wrong for going on a date for a few hours? My mother makes it like I'm the worst person in the world anytime I want to go out and it doesn't involve her. Not to mention she pulled this shit last year so I spent last Valentine's Day with her and cancelled on my previous boyfriend and it made us get into a huge argument so this year I didn't want to make the same mistake. Either way it's a loose loose. Please I need advice 😩