Ugh.... Need to get my bf to have more sex

Carissa❤👑👫👭👶👄 • I`m Carissa I have a daughter I’m engaged but also looking for some really close friends and have a little fun every now and then sometimes I’m a sweet down-to-earth person once you get to know me!!!
So I'll start by say we want a baby and have been TTC kinda. In general it always seems like my bf is always too tired to have sex and when we do it is always at night and I'm the one always making the first move. Help wat can I do? I mean I feel like a big horn ball. I'll end up masturbating. Am I a big horn ball? 😕😑😯😐