Advise please x

Just a general rant, all my family don’t like my partner after 4 years of been together! Iv been moved out for 3 years and had my own place I moved out at a young age because living at home was horrible my father was an alcoholic.what do I do? I feel like I need to choose but i would definitely choose my partner as my family don’t come visit me,my partner dose literally everything for me. Anyone else suffer from this? I am 20 years old and so is my partner. They don’t like him because apparently he’s too bossy with me? 🤔