Stressed vent.
So, I guess I’m just venting because I need to get this out and my best friend doesn’t ever seem to care and never listens but that’s a different topic. Anyway, so pretty much I’m 14 and I have an abusive dad (He’s verbally abusive, although he used to be very physically abusive to my mother) our situation is very unique, but pretty much my dad Sucks And I have the best mom in the world. Anyway, my mom is $25,000 in debt-I must add my mom never buys anything for herself, all of her clothes are like from 10 years ago, and a lot of that debt is because my dad would never help pay down her credit card, and he would spend on hers even though she brought the groceries on hers and he had the main paying job, and I have heard them Fighting about this so, and also my mom always tries to give me and my brother amazing birthday parties and great presents for Christmas and different things like that. She always make sure were taken care of and happy. Anyway, I got into a fight today with my father, because we are not angry terms, and he didn’t keep to a deal he made with me and my mom. It ended up filing and I brought up a text that he had with my mom saying he was going to let our house into repo so basically not paying the bill, and I said “oh and by the way I saw the text threatening to let the house go into repo, so, what are you just going to let me and your son and my mom become homeless?” And he said “oh my SON, My REAL CHILD will be taken care of” and I said “Oh so I’m not your child now? Yeah this isn’t the first time you’ve said and not your daughter. So you’re just gonna let me and mom be homeless? Back to the selfishness I was talking about.“ And he had the nerve to say “I didn’t say that, you and your mom will go your separate ways, and I really don’t care what happens after that.” And ice yelled “ YOU WILL NOT TAKE MY BROTHER” And he just kept on making fun of me and threatening me saying that if I keep on talking like that I will regret it. I’m really scared because I know that he won’t just be happy with divorcing my mom. He will definitely try to hurt us and gainful custody of my brother. He has the money in the stable job. And I honestly think he would just let me be homeless. We would have to stay with some family until we can get On our own feet. I just feel scared and helpless. My mom’s been working a very low-paying job and she has been putting in applications to everything she can fine but she hasn’t gotten anything back. I just don’t know what to do anymore and I can never concentrate on anything because I’m so stressed. Anyway yeah sorry for venting so much... also a little bit of background my Dad would chuck my mom in front of me and hit her and punch through doors and scare me and pretty much just make me watch my mom cry while she tried to hide for me in the closet because she didn’t want me to see and telling me how pathetic she is, But since he’s in the navy he knew he get kicked out for it and so after they divorced the first time they had to get back together because my mom couldn’t support us otherwise, he didn’t hurt her anymore physically. Though he would threaten to. Just so you know how exactly how horrible he is.
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