Suggestions plz?

Question

So I’m really into bdsm and kinky stuff etc. and my boyfriend, although he says he’ll do it with me if I want to just doesn’t seem that into it. Although I’ve been slowly getting him into I’m not exactly sure if he understands it or if he is even that into it? What should I do that’s not awkward lol

Answer

Try talking to him to see if there's anything kinky he is into. You could also watch porn with him to show him what you like and to see if any of the things you like turn him on (if that doesn't make you uncomfortable and if you even watch porn. Maybe just showing him how turned on you get from the kinky things will get him more into it. I have a pain kink and at first my boyfriend was afraid of hurting me but once he realised how much it turned me on he got really into it and realised that it turned him on too.