My bf on the small size he’s like 4 inches! Sometimes we have a good sex and sometimes I don’t feel anything!!! He’s my first so idk if he was on the bigger size we will have a better sex? Will it matter?

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Size is subjective and dependent on personal preference and your anatomy. ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL. What is small for one girl is perfect for the next one while what is huge for another girl might be perfect for you. Our vaginas are not all the same just like penises all vary. 
None of us can tell you whether or not 4 inches is too small for you. It's your body, Not ours. 
All we can do is share our personal preferences and experiences. 
4 inches is small for me, but I can easily take 8-9 inches with not many issues. However, that is not the case for everyone here. 9 inch dick might be impossible for some! Width of penises also vary, so some women may prefer wider so they can feel them more while others need thinner dicks cuz wider ones hurt.
SIZE IS SUBJECTIVE.
But to add to the complexity, this is also your first D in the V, so you lack experience in the bedroom. It could do with overall performance, but we can't tell you which it is.
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.
Explore (positions and toys) and find out what you like then you'll have better sexual clarity.

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it’s not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean.
however, being a tug boat in an ocean may not be awesome.
I had a guy who was under this size who performed AMAZING oral sex. Otherwise our sex life would’ve been subpar. Personally, I have vaginismus so a micropenis was perfect for me and didn’t hurt as bad.
See if he can make you orgasm in other ways 🤷🏻‍♀️ a penis size shouldn’t be everything buuuuut idk about you but if they can’t make me orgasm, I can’t picture a future.

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Well it all depends, vaginas are all different shapes & sizes. What can feel good to someone might not be the same as you. I've had sex with someone who was 4 inches, for me personally I didn't like it. I've also been with someone who was 9 inches and oh man no way.. to painful! 😣 my SO is 7 1/2 inches so average and he's perfect 😍. It just depends on what you like.

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POSITIONS POSITIONS POSITIONS. Try bending over a table or a sink. It will make that 4 inches turn to 10 inches.

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ive slept with 2 guys with very small penises. Both experiences were similar, they both wanted to go really fast and had no rythem so to me it was bad mostly because of that. i think size matters, but not as much as what they do for you. if a guy is willing to learn and do anything to get you to cum, thats a keeper. try playing some slow jams and working on rythem. also if you do doggy or reverse cowgirl its a deep angle and you can work the clit at the same time. take control of the rythem and angles instead of letting him lead and itll be better for you.

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it's not about what size he is its about how he performs. I'd talk to him and you guys can try different things.

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I like bigger cause it means I feel more and I feel everything, also he can go deeper. If you like oral sex and stuff it’s wouldn’t matter too much but I’m all about the dick, so it just depends on what you’re into

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For the ones who voted details can you explain? If it matters or no?

My bf on the small size he’s like 4 inches! Sometimes we have a good sex and sometimes I don’t feel anything!!! He’s my first so idk if he was on the bigger size we will have a better sex? Will it matter?

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