Am i rightfully annoyed?

Question

Is it selfish for me to be annoyed that my boyfriend brought up a fight that we had a week ago and ALREADY discussed. I feel like once you have a fight, it shouldn’t be brought up again. We already resolved what happened, so why bring it up again to fight about? Unnecessary waste of time

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If it wasn’t resolved to him then its not unnecessary and a waste of time.

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Maybe he’s still hurt or upset about it, my boyfriend always does this . He acts like hes over it, and then a week or whatever goes by and he brings it up . It’s a way of him showing me he’s not over it . I do this sometimes too though . 🤷🏼‍♀️🤭

Answer

If you two have settled an argument it's not okay to bring it up anytime he feels. Nothing will ever be settled in a relationship or work if this happens it's very unhealthy. If one of you doesn't feel like it's settled, you figure it out until you come with a solution. Then you move on.

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My boyfriend does that but it doesn’t have to be a week ago. It could be two years ago. It is annoying and in fact can be toxic to your relationship! But I agree if it wasn’t resolved for him I can understand

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Yes, this type of behavior is very unhealthy in a relationship. Keeping “records” is super bad for relationships. Maybe talk about it one last time to see if he has unresolved feelings, but that should be it.

Am i rightfully annoyed?

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