My mother has been non-stop guilting me into having her in the delivery room with me. The problem is she tends to stress me out because our personalities are so different. Also my grandma has been more of a mom to me so if my mom is in the room I'd feel obligated to also have my grandma there. And then there's my mother in law...Along with my doctor, doula, and husband I feel like that is too many people. My mom has been the only one who has been pressuring me like this and I don't know how to make her understand. Am I making too big of a deal about this? Should I just cave and let her come in the room? At this point she's saying if I don't let her in the room she's not gonna come at all.