Am I mean or is my boyfriend overly annoying

Am I the only one that gets super annoyed beyond belief by my boyfriend?? He drives me insane sometimes with annoying stuff he does and I feel bad so I don’t say anything bc I don’t want him to be sad but I wish I could just say “turn your volume down.” “Quit talking I’m watching this” “gross brush your teeth” lol I guess I’m just wondering if I’m a total bitch or if everyone feels these things deep down???