Is this because I’m a Virgin or am I broken?

This guy I was talking to and I were engaging in foreplay. He was fingering Me and rubbing my clit but I just couldn’t get wet and stay wet. I’m not attracted to him anymore because I’m

Tired of the cheating and lies but I did want to hang out with him and see where this would go but it wasn’t working out. Like it started to hurt. When he was still trying to rub me. I wasn’t really feeling anything. Or into it. He said I should buy a vibrator because it would help but I’m thinking it’s cause I’m not attracted. What do you guys think?