When does sex start to become enjoyable?

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I’ve had sex three times and there’s still a little bit of discomfort but I’m still not enjoying it like I should. So when did it start to became enjoyable for you personally?

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When I was with the right person. Having sex with someone who didn't care to cater to my needs or bother to make a conscious effort to get me off just made sex into a chore.

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Depends who you’re with. I don’t think it’s about being in love ( although that does make a difference) it’s about what you like and being comfortable xx

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I imagine its really different for everyone. For me sex was pretty slow and painful and it took us a good few attempts before he could even fully get in! We had sex daily and it took a month or so for it to stop hurting me at all and for me to orgasm.

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Communication.
You need to talk to your partner about what feels good and what doesn't. Sex with anyone can be great if your both on the same page. Not everyone likes the same things so it could very well be that you're not orgasming/fully aroused with what he is doing thus causing it to be uncomfortable or painful.

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Honestly I lost my virginity 3 years ago until I met the person I’m banging now I always felt like sex was a chore and was always uncomfortable 🤷🏼‍♀️ it sucks but its different everyone. For some girls it feels great right off the bat

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I agree with moon mama.....please want for someone you love this is coming from someone that used to sleep around a lot and I hate rendering those days

When does sex start to become enjoyable?

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