I’m a premed student and I’ve been flirting and having sex with this engineer student for about six months. We’ve known each other since high school and we share some friends. We’ve also got some good chemistry going, but we’re both technically still single.

We’re also not seeing anyone else either, and I’m pretty sure about it. We’re really open with each other and we can go on each other’s phones and stuff. We hangout weekly and text each other often during breaks, but we haven’t gone on any dates and he hasn’t asked me to be his girlfriend. He knows I developed feelings for him, but he hasn’t told me if he had any feelings for me or anything. He’s really focused in school and we’re going to graduate this year. I’m focused too, but I feel as though we could be more.

One other thing I should mention is that we did go out with each other for about three months after high school ended, but broke it off because we went to different schools and because he told me that I “deserved better.” If you’re curious, during that period we were together, I’m pretty sure he didn’t cheat on me or anything (for sure). He also didn’t see anyone since we broke off either. I was practically the only girl he has been with since we began college. He even admitted that he did think of me during the period we were separated.

What do you guys think? I think that he’s just busy and that maybe there’s a chance we will get together in the future when we’re more free. I’ll answer any questions if you have any. I’m just confused on where we’re at and I want feedback. He’s been in my heart for six years, and I don’t know if I could give him up easily.