How did you break your baby from being swaddled?

I’m having such a hard time with his arm reflex. I’ve tried to do one arm and he refuses to sleep. If I hold him he will let me leave his arm out. Every time he’s knocked out I lay him down with one arm he tries to shove his whole hand in his mouth because he’s teething and then he gets so mad he wakes up. I’m so confused on how to break him from it.