we're expecting our 3rd baby, due July 20th. we should be finding out the gender soon, and anytime I mention it, he says he doesn't want a girl, it better be a boy, etc. our first son passed away from SIDS, so part of me thinks he's saying this because he *should* have 2 little boys at home with us. I know he will love the baby no matter what, but his attitude about the gender makes me not even want to talk to him about this pregnancy. I am happy and feel very blessed for this new bundle of joy.