Baby bump expectations

I’m 17 weeks today and literally everyone I know that sees me for the first time since becoming pregnant is like “whoa where’s your bump you’re so tiny you don’t look pregnant” “i was way bigger than you are when i was that many weeks” this happened since i was 13 weeks. then when I come onto <a href="">pregnancy apps</a> ~some women~ are telling FTMs and even others when they post their bellies “that’s not a baby bump you’re just bloated there’s no way it’s your bump you won’t have one till you’re 25 weeks”

It’s just crazy how polar opposite people’s reactions are to your size