After years of dealing with family drama, a father who controlled everything but wouldn't pay for a wedding (we didn't ask either, but was still very rude about it), after everyone telling us what we should or should not do, after a horrible misscariage, after realizing that we love each other and not everyone else around us we ELOPED. It took me a long time to realize I didn't need to please my family with materialistic stuff and once I learned that I started to look at the amazing man in front of me that is giving me the world! I could ask for a better husband. Also, after we told our family they were surprisingly thrilled and everything seems to finally be working out!