Hi I live in California where a lot of women around here are fit and skinny. When we got engaged I started gaining weight and topped out at 150. When we met I was around 130. I lost some of the extra weight and Im now 135, but my husband wants me to be 125. He gets upset at me when I eat junk food and bring home snacks. It's really putting a strain on out relationship. I'm 5'6 tall.