so hubby and i are TTC. but back story is ever since ive had our daughter i dont get wet and i dont squirt. on top of that we had sec maybe 1 time a month cause we co slept with our daughter. (she is in her own room now) so now that we are trying we are also trying to get spice and romance and life back into our sex life. what are some things i can try on him so that way "he isnt doing all the work". sn: he doesnt want to eat me out. we tried vibrator cock ring he went soft saying it made him numb. so what else.