I need a plan....WHAT DO I SAY?

Question

I told my mom i am pregnant, and since i don't really have a plan she's pushing an abortion on me. i am 23 weeks, and just this week I've already been to two different clinics. Everyone has turned her down. I let her know i did not want to go through with it, but her response is "so whats your plan" i can tell she's very hurt, and confused. She told me if i kept it, i have to move in with my boyfriend and his parents. (who aren't in the best situation, but are happy to help) I understand where my mom is coming from, but i want to stop visiting these clinics, and let her know I'm serious. I just cant seem to find the words for it. please help, time is ticking!!

Answer

If your that serious about it then you need to be a mother and move in with your boyfriend this may sound rude but I’m not trying to be rude at all! Now that ur pregnant u need to think about the best thing for your child! And if that means going to your boyfriends then so be it, especially if there happy to help!! Ur 23 weeks it’s not like ur 7/8 weeks so its a muchhhh bigger deal!

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i was in the same boat as you, although my mom was pushing for adoption. she loves me and this baby, but she doesn't want to see me struggle and put this babe in a situation it shouldn't be. i think the best thing to do would be get a plan, and stick with it. you need to have confidence in your self and she will eventually gain it in you!! i hope goes well!

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i was in the same boat as you, although my mom was pushing for adoption. she loves me and this baby, but she doesn't want to see me struggle and put this babe in a situation it shouldn't be. i think the best thing to do would be get a plan, and stick with it. you need to have confidence in your self and she will eventually gain it in you!! i hope goes well!

I need a plan....WHAT DO I SAY?

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