How does this work?

What does it mean when I can’t stay wet and when he touches me I basically don’t feel it. Like it doesn’t feel bad but not good. When he fingers me I get really wet but I’m just laying there like ummmm okay lol. I gave him head 3 times and he came each time but as For me I felt nothing. Is it something he’s doing wrong ? Or is it me because I was kind of nervous but not really. It was only foreplay because I’m not ready for sex yet. What do you guys think ?