I’ve been hanging out with this guy. At first things were going really well. He said he was into me and expressed that we got along really well. Chemistry I feel was there bc we were constantly making out and he would be lovey dovey. We also have same sense of humor and he’s really interesting in way I don’t see with guys my age.

Anyways things have kinda cooled off in the physical way bc he expressed he “needed time” after a last relationship. Now we’re more flirty friends. We hangout maybe once every couple weeks which isn’t as much as I like but every time we do hangout he’s a perfect gentleman, flirty, pays for things (which I honestly do not care about ppl say it means something), and insists he doesn’t want to rush a physical relationship which I am happy about.

My question is, am I looking too much into the fact I don’t hear from him all the time and honestly initiate most of texting/hangouts, or should I look more into how he treats me when are actually together?