what is this middle name obsession?

Laura • boymom to sebastian age 2, remy born aug 2020

no one has ever called me by my middle name, or uses my middle name. i dont call anyone by their first and middle name.

but i see so many people trying to decide on first names by what the middle name would be. unless youre planning on using your childs middle name as a first name, just care about what people will actually call them.

same goes with concerns over initials.

sure you want something that flows, but i just dont get it.