I just got engaged earlier this month. We've been ttc since January. Our wedding date is 6/11/16, so a year away. I've been thinking that if I don't get pregnant within the next couple of cycles, I should wait until after the wedding so that I'm not walking down the aisle with a pregnant belly. It's not that I care what people will say, but I really don't look my best when I'm pregnant. I want to walk down that aisle with HOTNESS in full effect, but I'm 45 and time is of the essence.  I would honestly be happy to get pregnant at any time. Does it make sense to hold off ttc for the sake of a wedding date?